Embarking on Our Haiti Adoption Journey
Table of Contents
- Introduction
- The Evolution of Our Adoption Plan
- Sponsoring a Child in Need
- The Decision to Adopt Internationally
- The Countries to Consider for Adoption
- The Availability of Adoption Opportunities
- Why We Chose Haiti
- The Challenges of Adopting from Haiti
- The Timeline and Process of Adoption
- Emotional and Financial Considerations
- Conclusion
Introduction
In this article, we will discuss our decision to adopt and the reasons behind it. We will also explore the process of international adoption and why we chose Haiti as our desired country. Throughout the article, we will touch upon the challenges and emotions involved in adoption, as well as the financial aspects that accompany the journey.
The Evolution of Our Adoption Plan
Our desire to adopt has been a gradual evolution over time. Initially, it was just a fleeting thought, but as our family grew and our children became more independent, the idea became more appealing. However, it wasn't until we sponsored a child in Africa that our perspective on adoption truly shifted. Writing letters to Beth Liam, our sponsored child, and hearing about the hardships she faces on a daily basis opened our eyes to the realities of the world outside our own.
Sponsoring a Child in Need
Sponsoring Beth Liam has been a rewarding and eye-opening experience. We have become aware of the financial struggles and difficult living conditions that many children face in other parts of the world. Beth Liam's letters, in which she requests prayers for a better life, have made us realize just how fortunate we are in comparison. These experiences with sponsorship have motivated us to take a step further and consider adoption as a means to provide a better life for a child in need.
The Decision to Adopt Internationally
When it comes to adoption, there are various options available, including domestic and international adoption. Considering our circumstances and research, we decided that international adoption would be the best fit for our family. Not only does international adoption provide an opportunity to change the life of a child in need, but it also allows us to experience different cultures and broaden our perspectives.
The Countries to Consider for Adoption
After researching different countries, we found that not all countries are open to international adoption. The Hague Convention, which sets guidelines for international adoption, has limited the options available. Countries such as India, China, Burundi, Haiti, and Colombia are among the few participating in the convention. Factors such as the availability of healthy adoptions and our own capacity to provide care influenced our decision-making process.
The Availability of Adoption Opportunities
Due to the regulations imposed by the Hague Convention, the availability of adoption opportunities has become more limited. While this is a positive development in terms of preventing unethical practices, it also means that there are fewer children eligible for adoption. This further narrowed down our choices, ultimately leading us to prioritize Haiti as our preferred country for adoption.
Why We Chose Haiti
After considering the available options, we decided to adopt from Haiti. Haiti is the poorest country in the Western Hemisphere, and it has faced numerous challenges, including natural disasters and a cholera outbreak. Over 7 percent of the population are currently orphaned and living in orphanages, with little hope of finding a permanent home. Being geographically close to Haiti, we felt a strong sense of connection and a desire to make a difference in the lives of these children.
The Challenges of Adopting from Haiti
Adopting from Haiti comes with its own set of challenges. The adoption process in Haiti can take three to five years, and we are prepared to bring home a toddler who has spent a significant amount of time in an institution. Adjusting to a new life and providing the necessary emotional and physical support will require careful preparation on our part. Fortunately, we have partnered with an agency that offers resources and training to guide us through the process.
The Timeline and Process of Adoption
The timeline for adoption can be lengthy, with many steps and requirements along the way. From submitting paperwork to undergoing home studies and cultural training, the process demands time, patience, and dedication. While the journey may be arduous, the end result of bringing a child into our loving home makes every step worthwhile.
Emotional and Financial Considerations
Adoption involves not only financial commitments but also emotional and spiritual preparations. As we embark on this journey, we recognize the importance of being emotionally and spiritually ready to welcome a child into our lives. Additionally, the cost associated with adoption should be considered. Adoption expenses can amount to around $45,000 over the course of three and a half years. Fundraising efforts may become necessary to help us reach our goal, and any support from friends and family would be greatly appreciated.
Conclusion
Our decision to adopt has been a personal and heartfelt choice. Through sponsoring a child in need and learning about the challenges faced by children in other parts of the world, we have been inspired to provide a loving home for a child through adoption. We have chosen Haiti as our desired country for adoption, recognizing the immense need for stability and care. While the journey will undoubtedly have its own set of challenges, we are committed to navigating through them and bringing a child into our lives.
