提防通奸：第一部分 // 箴言6:20-35 // 主日崇拜

目錄

1. 介紹
2. 次級標題 1
   • 次級標題 1.1
     • 次級標題 1.1.1
   • 次級標題 1.2
3. 次級標題 2
   • 次級標題 2.1
   • 次級標題 2.2
4. 次級標題 3
   • 次級標題 3.1
   • 次級標題 3.2
5. 次級標題 4
   • 次級標題 4.1
   • 次級標題 4.2
6. 次級標題 5
   • 次級標題 5.1
   • 次級標題 5.2
7. 次級標題 6
   • 次級標題 6.1
   • 次級標題 6.2
8. 次級標題 7
   • 次級標題 7.1
   • 次級標題 7.2
9. 次級標題 8
   • 次級標題 8.1
   • 次級標題 8.2
10. 結論

grab your bibles proverbs chapter 6 is，where we are we a few weeks ago made it，down through verse 19，and we're going to pick it up in verse，20 this morning，i thought i would move faster through，the book of proverbs and now it's，evident to me that there's no way，possible for me to go through any，bible ver，text of the bible quickly um and that's，because it's alive and it says has so，much to say to us and so，this is chapter six but week 17 and，that's just unfortunately the way where，it goes y'all have been around him for a，while you，you understand how it goes amen we all，know that okay good good um but verse 20，is where we're gonna pick it up，and we're gonna actually，finish the chapter i know some of you，don't think that's possible but we will，so grab your bibles and，look at verse 20 proverbs chapter 6 if，you're already there say amen，my son，keep your father's command，and do not forsake the law of your，mother，bind them continually upon your heart，tie them around your neck，when you roam they will leave you，when you sleep they will keep you，when you awake they will speak to you，verse 22 is kind of nice there for you，to highlight or underline the word of，god will lead you will keep you will，speak to you，verse 23 for the commandment is a lamp，and the，law a light，reproofs and instruction are the way of，life，to keep you from the evil woman from the，flattering tongue of a seductress do not，lust after her beauty in your heart nor，let her allure you with her eyelids for，by means of a harlot a man is reduced to，a crust of bread，and an adulteress will prey，upon，his precious life and by the way ladies，if you have been away or missed some of，the previous teachings in this you have，to apply this to your self as well the，adulterous man same thing ladies or，if you have a same-sex attraction or any，any other perversion of sexual，immorality it all applies and you have，to take heed，and so it says uh as we continue，do not lust after her beauty in your，heart nor let her allure you with her，eyelids for by means of a harlot a man，is reduced to a crust of bread and an，adulteress will prey upon his precious，life can a man take fire into his bosom，and and his clothes not be burned can，one walk on hot coals and his feet not，be seared um so is，he who goes into his neighbor's wife，whoever touches her，shall not be innocent，people do not despise a thief who steals，to satisfy himself when he is starving，yet when he is found he must restore，sevenfold，he might have to give up all，the substance of his house，whoever commits adultery with a woman，lacks understanding he who does so，destroys his own soul，wounds and dishonor he will get and his，reproach will not be wiped away for，jealousy is a husband's fury，therefore he will not spare in the day，of vengeance he will accept no，recompense nor，will he be appeased，though you give many gifts so father we，do thank you this morning for your word，for the text that you've given us lord，god and i pray that it would speak to us，all of us lord god right where we are，uh lord let none of us uh dismiss this，as not being applicable to to our lives，lord god let us take heed father i pray，that in this very moment you will remove，all of the the cares of this life all of，the distractions from this room that we，may hear clearly what you have to say in，jesus name amen amen and i would just，say as well if you don't mind um，checking your devices to make sure that，they are turned off，so that you are not interrupting someone，uh in the room as we go through this，teaching so as we just read in verses 20，through 35 you notice that we are，warning again about adultery and sexual，sin this is the third time that solomon，has，brought this up and mentioned it if you，remember in chapter 2 verses 16 through，19，all the way through chapter 5 he hid it，several times here now in chapter 6，we'll have to deal with it again through，chapter 7 and then he'll mention it a，few times later in the book of proverbs，and so um it seems like especially in，this first part of the book of proverbs，he's hit on this quite a bit in fact if，you were to categorize all the topics，this one obviously is getting more print，than any of the other topics that he's，covered thus far，as we have been through this and so he,keeps coming back to this warning,and it would be easy for us to say okay,solomon we've got your point we can move,on from this now,but the truth is that if we think we've,got it then we've missed it,and it's necessary that he continue,to bring this issue before us because,this issue,never goes away,it keeps coming up as long as we live we,have to deal with this issue,at every age and every gender,throughout our lives the temptation of,sexual immorality and adultery first,corinthians chapter 10 verses 12 to 14,says therefore let him who thinks,he stands take heed lest he fall,no temptation i've overtaken you except,such as is common to men but god is,faithful who will not allow you to be,tempted beyond what you are able but,with the temptation will also make a way,of escape so that you are able to bear,it therefore my beloved flee from,idolatry in other words we all are faced,with the same common temptation of,sexual immorality,and whether it's the listen whether it's,the secret imagination of your mind or,if it's something that you're being,tempted with physically,you're gonna deal with it and side note,the world satan is trying to make this,so normal and so common that they're,even teaching listen even teaching,sexual immorality through graphic,material and graphic content to our,children in the school system now,and the lgbt community and their,sympathizers are becoming more hostile,towards anyone who would speak out,against it this is the way our world is,going this is the environment we live in,literally it's like sodom and gomorrh,coming right before us and it's,something that we have to understand as,we move further into the last days that,there are a lot of things that we're,going to see and we're going to have to,deal with,you know,you would think by the way that as you,get older you would deal with this issue,less and less,but when i talk to the older gentleman,they prepare me and say no it doesn't go,away and it doesn't lessen and you're,like man lord you would think we get a,break as we get older you know we should,be able to enjoy the older years without,the battle no the battle doesn't go away,and i want to make sure you understand,this because if you think about it,listen in verse 20 and 21 notice notice,very similar language my son keep your,father's command and do not forsake the,law of your mother and this is the same,language he's been using as he brings us,right back to the same thing again,why is solomon repeating himself,well peter put it this way in second,peter chapter 1 verses 12-15 he says for,this reason i will not neglect to remind,you always of these things though you,know and are established in the present,truth yes i think it's right as long as,i am in this tent meaning his body to,stir you up by reminding you,knowing that shortly i must,put off my tent in other words i know,i'm going to be dying soon just as the,lord jesus christ showed me peter says,moreover i will be careful to ensure,that you always have a reminder of those,things after my decease so peter's,saying i'm going to remind you of the,truth of the word so that after i'm gone,you have something to look back on,as a constant reminder of the things,that you need to know and either to be,able to be successful in this life and,what we need to understand is that any,time,scripture repeats itself there's an,emphasis being put on what's being,repeated,but if in the scripture it's repeated,more than once,it's as if the holy spirit is screaming,at the reader that this is a vital,essential part of what you need to,understand in order to be a successful,believer walking with the lord and,therefore this topic keeps popping up,this is the third or fourth time uh that,we've seen it since we began,the book of proverbs now,i have to say this part,for me,this is extremely important,i just heard this week about another,pastor who fell into sexual immorality,and now there are families destroyed in,a church that's hurting,a pastor that i knew personally actually,while on vacation last week i picked up,a book and began to read that one of the,fathers here in the church and when i,when i say fathers in the church or,mothers in the church what i mean is a,person who is old enough to be a father,figure but actually one who cares enough,to both encourage and correct a younger,person you know and that's a that's a,beautiful thing to have in your life by,the way uh and this gentleman i think,he's given it to several brothers in the,church he gave me a book called,finishing strong,so i was on vacation i picked it up i,started reading the book and i came,across this one section,where the book uh whether there was a,study an interview a study that was done,by a professor,um a phd howard hendricks he interviewed,246 men in full-time ministry who,experienced moral failure within a,two-year period of one another um in,other words the the this,246 men who all fell in sexual,immorality within a two-year period of,time,and as he uh interviewed them he,discovered that all of these men had,four things that uh began to pop up that,were correlations in all of their,situations there were four issues in,these men's life and you got to catch,this for a minute because i don't know,if,you caught the magnitude of that,246 men,committed to full-time ministry serving,the lord jesus christ,the type of men we would look up to,all 246 fell into sexual immorality,and so they had four things in common in,their situation and you gotta listen to,these number one,none were involved in any kind of,personal,accountability group,in other words they had kind of gotten,out of fellowship you know one of the,things we find is that when people,become isolated,it's because they they're in sin a lot,of times and they don't want to come,around the believers they don't want to,go around their brothers or they don't,want to go around their sisters because,somebody may identify or see the issue,and so they had kind of gotten out of,this,you know,i was thinking about the guy who fell,like man i hadn't seen him in two years,i mean that's that's interesting all,right number two,each had ceased listen very carefully,especially in light of the verses we're,going to read in a minute each has,ceased to invest in daily personal,time,of prayer and scripture reading and,worship meaning that each one had,begin,to neglect their personal time with the,lord praying and reading and worshiping,and then,here's one,number three,over eighty percent of them became,sexually involved with another woman,as the result of counseling the woman,in other words they were spending,significant portions of their schedules,with women other than their wives,and ladies this is why you have to,understand when i make,comments like about here the leadership,the male leadership does not counsel,women,and in fact i don't counsel any women,unless her husband is in the room with,her or my wife is in the room with me,otherwise when you call the church to,schedule a counseling appointment the,church administrator is going to,try to work it where my wife is there or,you would then be assigned to one of the,women leaders within the women's,ministry,because the truth ladies is that what,you truly need from a counseling,standpoint,you're going to get from another woman,who's mature in the word and proven,character in her walk than what you can,get from a male leader anyway because a,woman is going to understand even,greater than what we would and whatever,i would be able to give you they should,be able to give you better in that,way,and when you think about families being,destroyed and churches being in turmoil,i think it's time for the body of christ,to realize that titus 2 kind of hints,towards,a male pastor not being alone with the,woman who's not his wife,why why is it so hard for us as a church,to,this congregation but the church of the,whole to just finally understand that,that titus and when paul's writing the,title says hey let the older women the,more mature women in the faith,let them counsel or teach the younger,women and the older men the younger,and,and let's get it right so we can kind of,get away from this one finally,and then,check this out and this is this is to,grab everybody in the room,all,246 of them,had been convinced that this type of,moral failure would not or would never,happen,to them in other words the pride factor,man that guy failed but that won't,happen to me kind of thing you know i'm,guarding myself and and pride we know is,one of the things that goes before,destruction,and so as i'm reading that and then i,turn to look at this text for for this,week it became very evident that the,reason that this is being constantly,repeated is because this is the one area,where we are all vulnerable,for failure and this is the one thing,because of the lust of the flesh which,everybody deals with and satan uses this,as he watches your life for opportunity,for destruction and what we need to,understand when we talk about adultery,is that adultery hits us at the,foundation of humanity as far as god is,concerned because god created first,within humanity the institution of,marriage and he used that as a vehicle,in which to build the family and that,becomes the backbone of humanity and,that is what satan loves to destroy,which is why,the world is in my opinion,in such a mess especially here in,america because the family unit has been,destroyed and marriage is treated as,though it's nothing and through the lgbt,movement you know now you can you can,pretty much uh you know marry whatever,and everything's been turned upside down,and what's right is considered wrong,and so he keeps bringing this to us so,in other words in this section of,scripture listen to me this is another,opportunity for the word of god to save,somebody's life in the the room today,and that's just the reality of it and,one of the beauties of teaching verse by,verse through the scripture is we we,get all of these these places where we,need to be,so that god can do something in us,